Rowan Spazzoli

Strategist. Lecturer. Consultant

Birthday Shoutout: Fabio

I’ve spent most of the day working and sleeping and I don’t have anything particularly insightful to blog about. So instead, a little birthday shoutout to my little brother Fabio.

Happy Birthday Fabs! Hope you got to play computer games to your hearts content today ๐Ÿ™‚


Image was taken in Italy in 2011 ๐Ÿ™‚

Song of the day: Ten Feet Tall - Afrojack
Thesis update: Some of my research is getting presented at a conference on Monday :)
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The Friday Shoutout: The School of Life

In school we learn a bunch of practical and technical subjects. Maths, science, biology, accounting etc. And in university, many people choose technical paths: accounting, law, finance, economics.

A big component of our life learning is left out of this. Understanding basic philosophy and psychology concepts, learning about the self and relationships.

A channel on YouTube does a great job of doing this. They’re called the School of Life, and they post videos on various critical life lessons and discussions.

They’re a great resource, and I’ve learnt a bunch of stuff that I would never have learnt in the formal education system. So do yourself a favour and check them out ๐Ÿ™‚


Song of the day: Tom Petty – Free falling

Blog 160/365. Read more about my #365of25 journey here

Right where I want to be

I’m absolutely exhausted and have been struggling to find the energy to write my blog post. So instead of writing anything insightful, I’d just like to take a moment to appreciate where I am right now with regards to my work/professional life.

Today I worked in four areas:

  • Behavioural economics and psychology
  • Teaching strategic thinking (applied to development outcomes)
  • Market analysis and strategy formulation for green economic development in Cape Town
  • Social entrepreneurship

The first was done in relation to my thesis. Despite it not being quite finished yet, some of my preliminary results will be presented at a conference on Monday.

The second was done at UCT when we met to plan the exam for this semester. It’s going to be an incredibly interesting exam.

The third was in relation to my consulting work on my green economic development project.

The last area was assisting with the submissions for the Oxford “Map the System” challenge. I’m the organizer of the South African leg of the competition.

I honestly am in awe of how fortunate I am to be working on all these exciting projects at the same time. I’m exactly where I want to be and I couldn’t be happier ๐Ÿ™‚


Image was taken at Babylonstoren a few weeks ago ๐Ÿ™‚

Song of the day: The Quiet - Roald Velden
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Poor benchmarking

Benchmarking is comparing or evaluating something to a standard. In the education system, for example, there are standardised tests such as the Matric Exams which are used to evaluate students, schools and areas.

The important thing is that these comparisons are done using significant volumes of data and a uniform method of measurement. It then makes sense to contrast different schools or districts which can then inform policy makers where to direct more attention or resources.

Personal benchmarking

We get so used to this system that we continue to subconsciously (or consciously) benchmark ourselves into our adult lives. There is so much that we want to compare, with questions such as:

  • How much is everyone earning?
  • Who is getting big positions/promotions?
  • What is the right age to marry? Why are some people getting married so young/old?
  • How much leave/holiday time are people getting compared to what I get?

These sort of questions jump out at us all the time. And when we hear someone has gotten more/ better than us we tend to think we’re doing badly.

The problem with doing this is that these comparisons miss the fundamental components of benchmarking:

  1. There is no standardised way to assess
  2. Your sample size is often limited to a very small sample (usually just a story from one friend)
  3. There is no set/average/normal level

This makes these comparisons futile exercises. Your benchmarking process is a complete waste of time.

The solution? Well… that ranges from fixing your internal dialogue to changing the way school assessment happens. There’s a lot to be done.

But the principle is simple: go at your own pace, and realise that trying to benchmark yourself is a flawed process. As long as you’re happy with your reality, then you’re doing it right.


Image is of Jared getting in the way of my sunset pic ๐Ÿ˜‰

Song of the day: Porter Robinson - Language
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Childs Play

An important part of personal development is the concept of play. It provides a practice ground to learn social concepts and experiment with different ways of doing things.

As kids we learn through playing in safe environments, with a classic case of this being the playground. Although there is room to hurt yourself, there are no real consequences. If you lose or win, you’re still able to return to the classroom when you’re done.

Playing as grown ups

As we grow up, there are less and less safe environments to play in. University is a temporary safe environment, in that there is some room to fail some tests. But definitely not as much as when you were a child.

And as we leave the tertiary education environment, our actions have an even more significant impact on us and the world around us.

With this in mind, we have less room to play and experiment as adults.

To get around this, we have a choice spectrum, somewhere between “stop playing” and “find ways of building a safe environment for yourself“.

Either extreme is not ideal. We don’t want to stop playing entirely but we also can’t have a perfectly safe environment (unless we move home and go back to preschool… which would be weird).

So the solution is finding the right mix for what you’re trying to do. Find room to play, to experiment. Create the safe environment, whatever that looks like for you. And as you continue to play, you’ll continue to learn and grow.


Image is of a Murano glass penguin that I got in Venice in 2008.ย 

Song of the day: Beyoncรฉ - Halo
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Learn anything, instantly

I remember a scene in “The Matrix” where Trinity and Neo come across a helicopter. Neo asks Trinity if she can fly it and she replies with “not yet” and proceeds to call the operator. She asks for a pilot program for a B-212 helicopter, which the operator is able to find. He uploads it to her and she is able to learn the commands instantly.

“Let’s go” she says to Neo as they hop in the helicopter and fly away.

Learn Instantly

At the time I thought that having something uploaded to your brain like that would be one of the most astonishing abilities.

  • Wanna learn karate? Done
  • Need to learn quantum physics? Sorted
  • Going to China and need to speak the language? ็ฎ€ๆ˜“!

If Elon Musk has his way, this might be a not to distant reality, thanks to things like Neuralink.

But we’re actually kind of living in an age like that anyway. With access to high speed internet, it is possible to learn anything we want, whenever we want to. It takes a little longer than it does in the matrix, but it’s still possible.

For example, today I needed to change the battery in my car. I had never done something like that before. But on the way back from the battery centre I read two articles and watched a sort YouTube video.

And bam! I had learnt how to do it myself.

I’m basically a mechanic now.

Learning to leverage

We have access to more knowledge than we can ever comprehend. Knowledge used to be one of the most valuable assets. But it’s becoming more open and more free.

It’s now about being able to acquire that knowledge quickly, leverage it and apply it.

You can learn to do anything. So what are you waiting for?


Image was taken this afternoon on my run ๐Ÿ™‚ first time I’ve run in a while and I managed 10km. Was aiming for 20km but my knee started giving me problems

Song of the day: GoodLuck & Boris Smith - Be Yourself
Blog 156/365. Read more about my #365of25 journey here

Not that big a deal

When I was in grade 7 I looked at high school kids and wondered how the hell they did it. Their world was so vast, so scary, yet they still managed it.

The same applied at the end of high school. I saw the students at university and wondered how they coped. Their lives seemed unbelievably complex, and they didn’t have parents around to help them navigate that.

In both cases, the move across from junior school to high school and high school to university were terrifying. It was a whole new playing field. It was a big deal.

But in reality it was only a big deal for the first few weeks. After that, I got into the rhythm of things and it was manageable. Suddenly, the most complicated looking environment was my natural habitat.

Not that big a deal

This pattern repeats itself throughout our lives. Every next step seems unsurmountable until we get there. And once we’re there we adjust to it and it becomes the new normal.

At the moment, things like marriage, owning my own place and having a job with significant responsibility seem incomprehensible. But I know that one day I will potentially have all of these. And I’ll realise that they’re not that big a deal.


Image was taken on Friday at the Waterfront ๐Ÿ™‚

Song of the day: Walmart Yodelling Kid
Blog 155/365. Read more about my #365of25 journey here

Snapshots from the past

Part of the reason I enjoy writing is because it affords me a snapshot into the past when I rediscover what I’ve written. In other words, writing is both a bookmark and a communication to my future self of how life is in that moment.

This evening I spent some time going through my writing from 2007. I found these while tidying my room this past week. What’s interesting is that I knew 2007 was a tough year for me. I struggled with a lot of things that now might seem minor but at the time were a big deal.

But I didn’t realise how tough 15 year old me found that year. Every week the writing gets darker and darker. And it is only interspersed with brief moments of motivation.

I wish I could go back to that kid and tell him it would all be okay. That most of the things I was worrying about eventually passed. And that now life is pretty wonderful.

Forward and back

I wrote a post on a similar topic a few months ago, which explored looking at yourself 5 years ago and looking 5 years into the future.

This experience gave me a chance to look 10 years back. And despite being a bit melancholic, it was also so special.

I wonder what 35 year old me will think when he reads this post.

So, to 35 year old me. Hi! I hope you’re doing well ๐Ÿ™‚


Image was taken in 2010 at our house in Lonehill ๐Ÿ™‚

Song of the day: Carl Hauck - Refraction
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