Much of what we do is measured by how it will appear to others.<\/p>\n
“What will people think if I only marry in my 40s?”<\/p>\n
“Will people judge me for my shitty car ?”<\/p>\n
“What will people see me as if I don’t have a stable job?”<\/p>\n
Some people may judge you. Or talk about you behind your back. Some might even bring it up with you directly.<\/p>\n
But he majority of our social measures are in our own head.<\/p>\n
It’s us judging ourselves by how we think other people will judge us. <\/strong><\/p>\n And in reality most people are too worried about themselves anyway to deeply care about what others are doing.<\/p>\n The best way to beat the social measure is not to outperform it, but by realising that it’s only a construct that we build for ourselves<\/p>\n Image is of the local bus station where we dropped Jared off this morning \ud83d\ude42<\/em><\/p>\n Blog: <\/strong>235\/365<\/p>\n Song of the day: My Immortal – Evanescence <\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Much of what we do is measured by how it will appear to others. “What will people think if I only marry in my 40s?” “Will people judge me for my shitty car ?” “What will people see me as if I don’t have a stable job?” Some people may judge you. Or talk about […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":956,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_crdt_document":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-957","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"yoast_head":"\n
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