1.0Rowan Spazzolihttps://rowanspazzoli.com/wprich600338<blockquote class="wp-embedded-content" data-secret="PlCc8VmZTk"><a href="https://rowanspazzoli.com/wp/irrational-insecurities/">Irrational insecurities</a></blockquote><iframe sandbox="allow-scripts" security="restricted" src="https://rowanspazzoli.com/wp/irrational-insecurities/embed/#?secret=PlCc8VmZTk" width="600" height="338" title="“Irrational insecurities” — Rowan Spazzoli" data-secret="PlCc8VmZTk" frameborder="0" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" scrolling="no" class="wp-embedded-content"></iframe><script type="text/javascript"> /* <![CDATA[ */ /*! This file is auto-generated */ !function(d,l){"use strict";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&"undefined"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!/[^a-zA-Z0-9]/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret="'+t.secret+'"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret="'+t.secret+'"]'),c=new RegExp("^https?:$","i"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display="none";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute("style"),"height"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):"link"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute("src")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener("message",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener("DOMContentLoaded",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll("iframe.wp-embedded-content"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute("data-secret"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+="#?secret="+t,e.setAttribute("data-secret",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:"ready",secret:t},"*")},!1)))}(window,document); //# sourceURL=https://rowanspazzoli.com/wp/wp-includes/js/wp-embed.min.js /* ]]> */ </script> After identifying an insecurity, the next step seems simple: rationalize it with facts and then the insecurity disappears. The truth is that it is much tougher than this. You can throw all sorts of logic and reason at an insecurity and it will be present in just as much force as before. If you’re insecure […]